A friend recently asked me if we made our children share their toys. I can only answer that with a resounding, “Yes!”   But, behind my “yes” are deep and character building reasons for my children.     Before I jumped into this, I did probe a little about her question. She had recently been told that another family had decided that sharing was difficult and created hostility and arguments among the children. So, by making it clear that each toy belonged to a specific child, that removed any arguments over who should get to use it. That child was not required to share and likewise, siblings were not allowed to use toys…